The Business of Love

“You yourselves know how I was with you the whole time from the first day that I set foot in Asia" (Acts 20:18),

Off and on through the years I've dipped into George Herbert’s book on ministry, The Country Parson. It’s a wonderful work, full of practical wisdom, part of the Classics of Western Spirituality Library by Paulist Press.

I read this morning, “The Country Parson is a lover of old customs, if they be good, and harmless; and the rather, because Country people are much addicted to them, so that to favor them therein is to win their hearts, and to oppose them therein is to deject them. If there be any ill in the custom, that may be severed from the good, he pares the apple, and gives them the clean to feed on."

Then Herbert comments, by way of example, on an old custom among country people, namely walking in procession around their fields invoking God’s blessing on their crops. (Apparently some parish priests were disdainful of the practice.) Herbert cites four ”manifest advantages,“ to going along with the custom, chief among them is the love shown in ”walking and accompanying one another.“ 

Herbert continues: ”The country parson, far from condemning such assemblies procures (brings about or effects) them often, knowing that absence breeds strangeness, but presence love. Now Love is his business and aim.”

I think of Dick Langford—the Young Life leader that won my heart when I was in high school—showing up day after day on the school grounds and practice fields, attending our games, present in places we gathered. I marveled that Dick would hang with a bunch of high school kids. 

Now I know that his business and aim was love. 

David Roper